Wednesday, December 24, 2014


Another great year! 

Twas the morning before Christmas, when all through the house
Not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse;
Mismatched socks were scattered all over the floor,
Why so impossible to situate them into a drawer?
The boys were nestled all snug in their beds,
Expanders and headgear attached to their heads.
Jack in his boxers, dimming the lights and loading ipad,
I slip in my mouth guard, prepared to watch Breaking Bad.

Then, in my ear, was an ear piercing ring
I sprang to answer the phone and began listening.
“Hi! How are you guys? I miss you and hope you can come!
To Boot Camp graduation!” Zach shouted over the phone.
“I called Mom, but she couldn’t answer. Please tell her ‘I love her!’
Emphatically, I received orders and confirmed with a  “Sir! Yes Sir!”
It will always be a vividly clear moment in time,
When we all first laid eyes on Zach marching in line.








Away to the flat screen I flew like a flash,
Tore open the Doritos and threw the bag in the trash
The rave green on the breast of the jersey’s below
Meant a day of torture for each Denver Bronco.
So rapid, those Seahawks, while Wilson’s coursers they came
He whistled and shouted and called them by name,
Now Sherman! And Smith! Let’s Go Baldwin!” shouted each fan
Let’s Go Golden Tate! This one’s for the 12th man!
To the top of the table, to the top of the wall!
Seattle Seahawks fans are Super Bowl Champs one and all!


As wet leaves surround us with grey northwest sky
Grandpa Stanley and Jack hopped on a plane to fly.
To England to see relatives, enjoy a lukewarm brew
Relish a cricket match, Shepard’s pie and an old girlfriend too!






The thrill seeker, fun hog, pilot and motorcycling brother,
Managed to crash and send both father and mother
To North Carolina to help as Mark's rib cage as body was flung  
Into traffic with broken shoulder and punctured lung.
I guess Dad was feeling lonely with Mark getting attention
Ended up in the E.R. with his bladder’s distention.
With bladder bleeding and ready to burst
I actually think it was Mom who had it the worst.
Both guys with nurses and drugs as they were stitched
While mom navigated 2 hospitals with 2 loved ones, without a glitch.

Lesle making us morning green drinks with crap, I mean kale and flax
Ben blaring the trombone, Nick accompanying on bari sax.

A few weeks before Spring Break the boys are set on their mission.
“C’mon Mom! We did it last year that makes it “Tradition!”

So off to Aunt Mary Beth’s they fly with their friend, Sol in tow.
And it is party central with Aunt Mary Beth and her dog Willow!
Only a sister would take 3 rowdy 
boys, 
For a week full of amusement parks, candy and toys!
















As I drew in my head and was turning around
Down the zip line they laughed and came down with a bound!
Hiked Glacier National Park with the Byrds, and chipmunks
Jack anxious with heights on the verge of blowing chunks.






He was in his Blue Dress Uniform, from head to each foot,
As for Elhiany, Lance Corporal Gallimore was in hot pursuit.
Back home to Seattle Zach quickly flew,
Before heading to Okinawa, he and Elhiany said “I do.”

Bride, Groom and Co.

Nick and Ben enjoying the true meaning of sports!
Great teammates, great hustle, and extra baggie shorts!
Soccer, baseball and tennis keep them busy with both feet and hands,
Nana and Papa, are simply the best you could ask for as fans.


Her eyes are suspicious restarting the computer to surf,
The wide world of the web and Googles “Synthetic Turf”
NBC does a small story and it creates quite a stir,
Reporters, lawyers, doctors and scientists are all calling her.
How is your research? Where is your lab? What is your approach?
Honestly everyone, I am just a college goalkeeper coach!

His eyebrows they are perfect, his goatee is so merry
But Ben noticed a black dot smaller than the pit of a cherry.
Right smack dab in the middle of Toby’s belly,
Jack watching football, eyes glued to the telly.
Les' took a closer look and exclaimed. “Good God! It’s a Tick!”
Get a flashlight! Get the matches! Get the tweezers! Hurry Nick!
He gathered the equipment as quick as he could race!

Nick is a teenager, so he moved at a snail’s pace.
The stump of the flashlight she held in her teeth,
Tugging on the tick, shaving off hair, digging beneath.
Toby, so loyal, so steadfast, his eyes looked supportively true,
As we burned and we tugged and made a vet appointment, too.

Jack drew the short straw and took Toby to the vet
No matter how hard we tried, that tick, we just could not get.
Cautiously and professionally he took in our dog as if he were cripple,
Inquiring curiously, “Why did you try to remove Toby’s nipple?”

A wink of an eye and a nod of their heads,
Soon gave us to knowhow we had nothing to dread.
They spoke and they listened, and they went straight to work
When the Huskies weren’t ranked, they just gave it a smirk.
Laying perfectly placed passes, and scoring more goals,
Slowly but surely, up the rankings they rose.
“To the Death!” they defended. “Imperfectly Perfect” was a theme.
They loved one another; and, in turn, loved their team.
They sprang off the bench, to cheer and to whistle,
With each bone crushing tackle and shot like a missile.
We heard them exclaim as they flew back that night,
Sweet 16 was fun, but a Final Four is where have set our sights!



So it “Twas the morning before Christmas, but now it’s afternoon.
The socks are somewhat picked up, and no longer strewn.
Packages are wrapped, music is on, Jack is shopping online,
Les protects the prime rib in horseradish; simply sublime



Loving home, loving peace, loving the Christmas mood.
God is gracious, God is good, let us thank him for this food

We are so thankful for friends and for family, … and for caffeine.
We love you, and will continue to well past two thousand and fifteen! 

Much Love, 
The Griffins!
"selfie" lessons with Mom
Aunt Mary Beth, Uncle Mark and Boys

Tuesday, December 24, 2013

It's back! …It's Long… sorry. Love you all! Ho Ho Ho!

‘Twas the night before Christmas, when throughout the abode, 

I sat with a very blank piece of paper not one, but 2 years ago
The stockings were hung by the chimney with care,

And I hoped that I could find some comfort there.

With children nestled all snug in their beds,

Recent 2012 events kept swirling in my head.
My heart wasn’t into trying to make the words rhyme
As I watched the Sandy Hook story on Prime Time.

And closer to home too many friends had passed;  I was mad,
A little league dad, Zach’s friend & soon to be grad.
A friend I’ve known since I began coaching at U-Dub,
A member of the Elite “Cool Goalkeepers Club”
I didn’t send a poem back in two thousand twelve,
Thinking I’d prove a point and feel sorry for myself.
… and learned if you focus on the sad, the gloomy the cheerless
You miss all of the happy, the courageous, the awesome the fearless.
BUT, focus on the “great” and you will quickly discover,
Blessings outweigh tragedies; and I also uncovered…
That moping about doesn’t help those that have sorrow,
They need joy more than ever, it’s ours they should borrow,


I tore open the shutters & did something with a sash!

I don’t know what a sash is, but here’s the news flash
We all need to spread laughter, and happiness, and joy

And a helping hand to those in need is another great ploy.

So I hope you enjoy a few things that appeared

With the Griffins over these past couple of years.

Now Lesle!  Now Benjamin!  Now Nick!  Jack & Zach! 

Let’s get this sled rolling, get our hearts back on track!

No time for wallowing! No time to silence our voice!

Time to help when we can! Time to love and rejoice!


Like Whorton with his Who, needs to be heard loud &clear
.
We are here! We are here! We are here! We are here!

Or the Grinch who is jealous and thoughtless and mean, 

Just needs some good friends and examples to be seen.    
To the top of the Calendar! I begin and remember them all!
Even the hum-drum moments, I will cherish them all!
Even the eye-rolls, that accompany my tweener named Nick.
I have learned that time is fleeting, and every moment fantas-TIC!
As warm leaves in January, the Griffin boys and I, 

Packed up with Nana and Papa and headed to the sky,

Landing in Puerta Vallarta, with the sunshine for all.
Nana and Papa made sure we had quite a ball

Spring filled with baseball. Nicholas loves the mound,

Recalling each batter’s stance before he “mowed them down.”

Ben struts to the plate mirroring the pros with a confident stance 

It’s his 1st year of “Kid-Pitch” (he didn’t stand a chance.)
Mom and Dad invited us to help them stroll down memory lane,
For their 50th Anniversary we all boarded the train,
Up to the top bunk, the boys thought it was the best,
We saw towns right out of theWild Wild West.



And then in a twinkling I heard on the P.A.
Only 23 more hours… we were only half-way?!!!
I drew in my head, whispering to Mark, “No internet??”
Chugging through Idaho, Ben asked “Are we there yet?”
I thought I’d jump at the chance to disembark,                                 THE BEST to be "stuck" with the folks, Mary Beth & Mark.
Fun for the boys asleep in their bunk, to feel the track gently shake,
Great to hang for longer than a meal, family portrait or wake. 

Mom, nervous the boys would be bored in her hometown,
Without Sounders games and electronic games always around.
It was the opposite, they loved doing the exact things we did
When we visited our grandparents back when I was a kid!
Saw the ol’ farm and schoolhouse, the park where we used to climb
Went to the Cheese Factory and the best Dairy Queen of all time.
Headed to the lake Dressed in red, white and blue,
We celebrated their 50th as well as the 4th of July, too

Still dressed in red white and blue from my head to each foot,

I joined the U20 USA team; to Japan we took hot pursuit

Not easy to leave so much for so long but last time I checked,

Dreams do not ring your doorbell and appear on your doorstep.

Each player grasping that this journey normally ends when you wake up,
That they were “wide awake” and living the dream of winning a World Cup.

2 More seasons of Husky soccer,  shy 1 more goal or shut-out.
Teaches me a bit more of myself and what I am about,
Because even in the years where I think we fell short,

I still absolutely love everything about coaching this sport


Talent is nice, but a bundle of passion is also a tact
That every player needs to be the best team in our Pac. 


His eyes how they twinkle, his dimples full of cheer,
Jack in Hawai’i with his golf clubs and cold beer.

Friends, food and fish with sunsets that were jaw dropping,
Lesle and Nick snorkeled by a shark eyes practically popping    
While most talk of how Santa gets down that darn chimney,
Kieran teaches a dance move we remember as The Shimmy”
Our Hawai'ian - athon looked for the better part of a week:
Snorkeling to Uno, to the pool, to ping pong; then eat and repeat.  





Spring Break for the boys was a trip that came in 2 stages.                                           
The cone of ilence, makes it so it will remain the N.Cal trip of all ages!                                         Another family reunion, the next summer of twenty-thirteen,                                                            Jack’s side of the family; we visited with Dave and Maureen
As well as Linda, Emmy, Nancy, Don, Doug, Carolyn & Chris
For me the stories were new, as Jo and Stan reminisced.

Hoops with Palia, Shane, Nick, Ben and Cameo by Sol

 Rafting with the Grandparents, a site to behold,
Arguing over should have won women’s Soccer Olympic Gold.
There is nothing like family and friends, never fear!  
And that the Sounders will beat the Whitecaps next year.


A trip to Italy with the family in tow,
Castles, cathedrals, gelato and pizza to go,
Enjoying the ‘business’ trip, many pictures we took
Mixing soccer and sunshine and our World History book. 
Upon our return, Zach expressed the new path he chose,
And giving a nod, off to the Marines he goes.
This holiday will be much different without that guy,
He was "All IN" proving Santa’s sleigh would come in the nigh’

Each kids' ornaments hang, & I miss Zach when I read his name, Knowing the Zachary that returns will not be the same,                                                                   Semper –Fi means, “Always faithful”: such a simple term. 
Reminded at Christmas;  “Faith” is what God’s children learn.
Meet Skittles

We will be thankful and joyful for everyone in our lives,
For the guinea pig my mother gave is with teeth like knives,
For the fact that our Jacuzzi tub meant for bubbles and wine
Is full of guinea pig shampoo and chew toys most of the time,
For eye-rolls, and alarm clocks, for car pools and the dentist,
For a Tweener who is slowly becoming a Teenager’s Apprentice.
For lunches I cannot imagine packing or eating for that matter
Or filling out one more thing on my ‘to do’ list calendar planner.
Bring it on life! I’ll find the best part of each year,
Regardless if Ben does or does not wear underwear.
For bumps and the bruises for each win and each loss,
For bloody gums because there is no time to floss!
Les' 50th ! 
For birthdays! Be happy we are allowed to get older!
For the lost homework you swear you put in your kids' folder.
Rejoice for those band concerts landing on the busiest eve,
When your kid forgets his reed and gets teriyaki on his sleeve. 

I'll rejoice and and give a blow on my coach’s whistle  
Giving thanks for the prime rib we devour, forgetting the gristle!

Be thankful for each breath, each friend in our life
Be the rock! Be the hug! Be the smile for those in strife.
There is no time for whining if another option is near
(she said as the boys are fighting about something she can’t hear)
 The RULE is: “Tell me something good that has happened tonight,”
That's the question, not just on Christmas, but every single night!

Merry Christmas!  I love You!  Especially if you made it to the END!


Enjoy some more photos if you wish! 







Middle School Here we Come! (and ya' can't miss us!)

Mom… one more sec' and then its' not cool

Mom and I at Haiti Babi Fundraiser

No caption necessary


Nana and the devils.. and the deviled eggs


Ben, Zach, Nick 

Geoff hogging the camera

So much easier to rejoice when it's not your birthday